Thursday, October 30, 2008

damn good advice

If a man wants you,
nothing can keep him away.


If he doesn't want you,
nothing can make him stay.


Stop making excuses for
a man and his behavior.


Allow your intuition
(or spirit) to save you from heartache.


Stop trying to change
yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.


Slower is better.


Never live your life
for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.


If a
relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then
heck no, you can't 'be friends'. A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend..


Don't
settle.


If you feel like he is
stringing you along, then he probably is


Don't stay because you
think 'it will get better'


You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.


The only person you can
control in a relationship is you.


Avoid men who've
got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.


He didn't marry them
when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?


Always have your own
set of friends separate from his.


Maintain boundaries in
how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.


Never let a man know
everything.* He will use it against you later.


You cannot change a
man's behavior.* Change comes from within.


Don't EVER make him
feel he is more important than you are...


Even if he has more
education or in a better job.


Do not make him into a
quasi-god.


He is a man, nothing
more nothing less.


Never let a man define
who you are.


Never
borrow someone else's man.


A man will
only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.


All men are NOT
dogs.


You should not be the
one doing all the bending...


Compromise is two way
street.


You need
time to heal between relationships...


There is
nothing cute about baggage...


Deal with
your issues before pursuing a new relationship


You
should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...


A relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...


Look for someone
complimentary...not supplementary.


Dating is
fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.


Make him miss you
sometimes..when a man always know where you are, and you're always
readily
available to him - he takes it for granted


Never move
into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.


Don't fully commit to a
man who doesn't give you everything that you need.*


Keep him in your radar
but get to know others.


Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in
relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil


You
should know that:


You're
the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man
mistreats you,
he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st
place,
just know that he's not the only one.


They're
all watching you, so you have a lot of choices.


Make the
right one.


Ladies take care of
your own hearts....


Share this with other
women and men (just so they know)...


You'll make
someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.


Anything
that the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve!

2 comments:

Est. 1988 style CONNOSSUIER said...

i <3 this..i needed to read this today! thanks

Anonymous said...

OMGosh! I total love you!!! Right on sister! Good word - true... true... true...

Blessings!